on love

The distinction between the what and the who is the question that haunts us. Between what you love about about someone...smile, sense of humor, kindness...and the who, the actual person...bitch. The problem arises then when one of the parties sees the who and the other the what, the problem is the incapability to accept people as they are, with their faults and their passions. The problem is to aim to shape others,it is that we are blind and  we manage to walk pass and not even see each other. The virtue is that we get used to it, and we realize that life is much simpler than it seems